Parshat Nitzavim Vayelech: Standing Strong Together Through Challenges

I dedicate this message to the neshamas (souls) of two special women, whose memories inspire us to continue acts of kindness and unity: Nehmat Tzlil bas Rabbi Yaakov Shoel from Manchester, and Sipora Malka bas Avrohom Cohen from Antwerp. May their memories be a source of blessing and strength for their families and communities.

Good evening, dear friends,

This past week, after a long and miraculous journey from Chile to Israel, I was reminded anew of Hashem’s constant presence and kindness. Despite widespread travel disruptions, I was able to arrive just in time to celebrate the pidyan haben (redemption of the firstborn son) of our great-grandson. This personal experience of siyata d’Shmaya (Heavenly assistance) deeply inspired me to share important lessons from Parshat Nitzavim, which speaks profoundly to our current times.

"Atem Nitzavim" — Standing Here, Standing Strong

Parshat Nitzavim opens with a powerful statement: "Atem nitzavim hayom kulchem," meaning, "You are all standing here today." The Torah acknowledges that life is filled with hardships, yet we continue to stand strong and move forward with Hashem’s support. This resilience is central to Jewish life, especially after a difficult year.

The Baal Musar offers a deeper insight into the word "nitzavim."

• On one hand, standing firm can be a positive expression of strength and faith.

• On the other, it can signify stubbornness and hardness of heart, which can isolate a person from others.

The Torah warns that those who refuse to listen or soften their hearts risk losing the connection and support of their community.

The Blessing of Listening and Opening Our Hearts

Following Nitzavim is the parsha of Ha'azinu, which teaches the great blessing of "hazinu" — to listen attentively. The ability to listen—to others and to Hashem—is one of the greatest gifts we can give ourselves. Openness and humility allow us to grow spiritually and to build strong bonds with our families and communities.

Moshe Rabbeinu further warns about the dangers of ignoring this call. Sometimes, a person’s heart feels like a “shoresh purah” — a bad root hidden underground. This can cause despair or a sense of helplessness. Yet Hashem’s message remains hopeful: even when we feel blocked or distant, we must open our hearts and respond to the call, like listening to the Shofar’s awakening sound.

Taking Responsibility for One Another

Parshat Nitzavim also emphasizes our collective responsibility as Klal Yisrael. We are “standing together” not only physically but spiritually, accountable to one another.

• While we do not bear responsibility for what is hidden or beyond our reach, we must act when we see others struggling.

• This could be with parnasa (livelihood), mitzvah observance, or personal challenges.

This call to mutual care and responsibility has been deeply evident this past year, as so many have sacrificed and supported one another. It is a great mitzvah to reach out, teach, and help wherever we can.

The Path to Teshuvah Is Near

The parsha reminds us that the path to return and improvement is close. It does not require grand gestures or distant journeys. As the pasuk (verse) states, "Ki karov eilecha ha'davar me'od" — the matter is very close to you. Change begins within, through thought, speech, and action. With sincere willpower and Hashem’s help, we can transform ourselves and our lives.

A beautiful story from Rav Shmuel Rozovsky illustrates this truth: A young man who left yeshiva for the army was gently invited back by his rebbe’s open-hearted letter. Years later, he returned, renewed and ready to learn. Likewise, Hashem’s door remains open, patiently awaiting our return.

Strength and Hope in Challenging Times

As we stand at the threshold of a new year, this parsha inspires us to be strong, courageous, and hopeful. Even when progress seems slow or challenges overwhelming, Hashem is with us. We must never lose hope or give up.

May we approach the Yamim Noraim (Days of Awe) with open hearts, ready to listen, grow, and support one another. May Hashem bless us with a year of health, unity, and spiritual renewal.